Closing statements: What keeps you going as a lawyer when you feel discouraged?
Vol. 82, No. 1 / January-February 2026
“I think about the people that I represent and that I am privileged to be able to help them resolve their legal issues.”
– Peter Cohen, lawyer at Peter Cohen Law Firm in St. Louis
“Other attorneys! Our jobs can be isolating, lonely, and depressing. Finding others who are willing (and want to) listen to you and talk with you is key. Not only does it sometimes result in good ideas and resolutions, it reminds you that you are not alone. Perspective can be very helpful. I find that people who are not ‘in the trenches’ do not understand the burden we shoulder each day, and that can make me feel further adrift. Other lawyers, particularly those who have been in the same trenches, can create a sense of comradery.”
– Tory Bernsen, CJA lawyer and St. Louis County Traffic Court commissioner in St. Louis
“When I am feeling burnout or discouragement, I try to remember why I became a lawyer. I wanted to make the world better and help people, simple as that. So, I try to see the difference I have made and continue to make for my clients. Reminding myself of my purpose and having perspective of the bigger picture gives me the reason I need to keep going and the motivation to work hard. People need us as lawyers, and we have a privilege, and in my opinion, duty, to go out and serve them. I always remind myself of that and I keep going, with a renewed sense of purpose.”
– Kennedy Womack, associate attorney at Stange Law Firm, PC, in Columbia
We were wondering … What is one habit you developed early in your career that has proven to be valuable over time? Share your answer by emailing Journal@MoBar.org or completing a form or visiting MoBar.Wufoo.com/forms/closing-statements.
